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		<title>By: Jane Smith</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165735</link>
		<dc:creator>Jane Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 05 Apr 2006 06:39:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>How embarrassing having to explain to English friends here on holiday that our indigenous people are murdering their children in higher numbers than anywhere else in the world.  Their response: &quot;are these people educated or taught how to respect another human being&#039;s life?&quot;.  My response to that could only be &quot;obviously, no&quot;.  Their response to that and to the photo published in the Herald was: &quot;they should not be allowed to have children&quot; with which I agree.
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How embarrassing having to explain to English friends here on holiday that our indigenous people are murdering their children in higher numbers than anywhere else in the world.  Their response: &#8220;are these people educated or taught how to respect another human being&#8217;s life?&#8221;.  My response to that could only be &#8220;obviously, no&#8221;.  Their response to that and to the photo published in the Herald was: &#8220;they should not be allowed to have children&#8221; with which I agree.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165734</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2006 03:10:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Small minds and all that....sigh!</description>
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		<title>By: Andrew Bannister</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165733</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew Bannister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2006 02:51:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>... actually James, you&#039;re quite right. I just re-read your comment and forgot about all that cheese on the moon.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8230; actually James, you&#8217;re quite right. I just re-read your comment and forgot about all that cheese on the moon.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew Bannister</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165732</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew Bannister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 23 Mar 2006 02:36:16 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James, wait and see. I predict you will start to eat your words in less than 20 years. Just because the &quot;slice of a limited pie crap&quot; isn&#039;t too popular with economists any more, doesn&#039;t mean it isn&#039;t true. 

Oh, and as for making a fool of myself in public, very large rock for a tiny little glasshouse.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James, wait and see. I predict you will start to eat your words in less than 20 years. Just because the &#8220;slice of a limited pie crap&#8221; isn&#8217;t too popular with economists any more, doesn&#8217;t mean it isn&#8217;t true. </p>
<p>Oh, and as for making a fool of myself in public, very large rock for a tiny little glasshouse.</p>
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		<title>By: err..</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165731</link>
		<dc:creator>err..</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Mar 2006 23:25:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James, I hope you&#039;re talking about the extremely long term.  While leaving the planet does happen now it happens to be one of those evil, communist, government-funded things that isn&#039;t actually commercially viable in any way yet.  And the obstacles to it becoming so are quite large, so I wouldn&#039;t base your glorious hopes of economic growth on that any time soon.  Let alone the fact that the universe (as a whole) is basically totally irrelevant to us at the moment given that we&#039;re yet to figure out a way to even get around our own solar system effectively.  Getting up into empty space on a regular basis is not particularly useful given that there&#039;s nothing there.

Call me when we get something to the nearest star, then I&#039;ll get interested.  But as things stand that&#039;s not going to be in my lifetime, so excuse me if I fail to share in your dreams of interplanetary trade.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James, I hope you&#8217;re talking about the extremely long term.  While leaving the planet does happen now it happens to be one of those evil, communist, government-funded things that isn&#8217;t actually commercially viable in any way yet.  And the obstacles to it becoming so are quite large, so I wouldn&#8217;t base your glorious hopes of economic growth on that any time soon.  Let alone the fact that the universe (as a whole) is basically totally irrelevant to us at the moment given that we&#8217;re yet to figure out a way to even get around our own solar system effectively.  Getting up into empty space on a regular basis is not particularly useful given that there&#8217;s nothing there.</p>
<p>Call me when we get something to the nearest star, then I&#8217;ll get interested.  But as things stand that&#8217;s not going to be in my lifetime, so excuse me if I fail to share in your dreams of interplanetary trade.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165730</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Mar 2006 22:52:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sigh! err...in case you missed it mankind has already left this planet more than once and will do so again some time.While we are out there we will be seeing what we can utilise for our own use and development....no?.Did I really need to state this to you...? The scale of the universe is infinite as far as we are concerned..its pretty big Im told and theres a lot in it, we should find enough to keep us going for a while!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sigh! err&#8230;in case you missed it mankind has already left this planet more than once and will do so again some time.While we are out there we will be seeing what we can utilise for our own use and development&#8230;.no?.Did I really need to state this to you&#8230;? The scale of the universe is infinite as far as we are concerned..its pretty big Im told and theres a lot in it, we should find enough to keep us going for a while!</p>
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		<title>By: err..</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165729</link>
		<dc:creator>err..</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Mar 2006 21:06:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Wealth and resources are not finite...unless you consider the entire universe a finite resource.&quot;

Well that&#039;s a silly point.

1) The universe IS a finite resource, just a very big one.
2) How exactly are you planning to bring the resources of the entire universe into practical use here on earth, where all humans happen to live?  There are some inconvenient laws of physics which tend to make this a little bit impractical at present.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Wealth and resources are not finite&#8230;unless you consider the entire universe a finite resource.&#8221;</p>
<p>Well that&#8217;s a silly point.</p>
<p>1) The universe IS a finite resource, just a very big one.<br />
2) How exactly are you planning to bring the resources of the entire universe into practical use here on earth, where all humans happen to live?  There are some inconvenient laws of physics which tend to make this a little bit impractical at present.</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165728</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Mar 2006 13:55:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;By the way, making people richer. How would you do that? Are you aware that we live in a closed system. Wealth and resources are finite, and generally speaking, every dollar I earn, is another dollar someone else has to give up. Fortunately we have most of Asia, Africa and South America to keep us in wealth for a wee while longer, but buddy, the shit will hit the fan. There are a billion ambitious Chinese out there, and once they start consuming, you&#039;re going to have to go without.&quot;

Oh bullshit Andrew....learn some basic economics before making a fool of yourself in public.I am stunned that there are people still pushing that &quot;slice of a limited pie&quot; crap.Wealth and resources are not finite...unless you consider the entire universe a finite resource.Wealth is created...there is no fixed pool and no one is disadvantaged because you earn a dollar...indeed that will lead to other people getting wealthier when you decide to enter into trade with them.And when those Chinese start to consume I and you are getting richer if we trade and supply them with goods and services.You have overlooked the fact that human beings don&#039;t statnd still and wait to stagnant and die.They innovate and grow...thats what will happen to make us all richer and better off....unless Government gets in the way,which is the real threat.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;By the way, making people richer. How would you do that? Are you aware that we live in a closed system. Wealth and resources are finite, and generally speaking, every dollar I earn, is another dollar someone else has to give up. Fortunately we have most of Asia, Africa and South America to keep us in wealth for a wee while longer, but buddy, the shit will hit the fan. There are a billion ambitious Chinese out there, and once they start consuming, you&#8217;re going to have to go without.&#8221;</p>
<p>Oh bullshit Andrew&#8230;.learn some basic economics before making a fool of yourself in public.I am stunned that there are people still pushing that &#8220;slice of a limited pie&#8221; crap.Wealth and resources are not finite&#8230;unless you consider the entire universe a finite resource.Wealth is created&#8230;there is no fixed pool and no one is disadvantaged because you earn a dollar&#8230;indeed that will lead to other people getting wealthier when you decide to enter into trade with them.And when those Chinese start to consume I and you are getting richer if we trade and supply them with goods and services.You have overlooked the fact that human beings don&#8217;t statnd still and wait to stagnant and die.They innovate and grow&#8230;thats what will happen to make us all richer and better off&#8230;.unless Government gets in the way,which is the real threat.</p>
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		<title>By: Clint</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165727</link>
		<dc:creator>Clint</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 22 Mar 2006 13:39:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James. Bang on mate. That is exactly what the state is here for. Somehow along the way Goverment lost the plot and people use it to prop up the kind of lifestyle that led to crimes like this.

Horrid, absolutely horrid. She should not be allowed out for many years.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James. Bang on mate. That is exactly what the state is here for. Somehow along the way Goverment lost the plot and people use it to prop up the kind of lifestyle that led to crimes like this.</p>
<p>Horrid, absolutely horrid. She should not be allowed out for many years.</p>
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		<title>By: Andrew Bannister</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165726</link>
		<dc:creator>Andrew Bannister</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2006 04:42:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James, you wrote &lt;i&gt;Libertyscott says it all.&lt;/i&gt;

Why are you still ranting?

By the way, making people richer. How would you do that? Are you aware that we live in a closed system. Wealth and resources are finite, and generally speaking, every dollar I earn, is another dollar someone else has to give up. Fortunately we have most of Asia, Africa and South America to keep us in wealth for a wee while longer, but buddy, the shit will hit the fan. There are a billion ambitious Chinese out there, and once they start consuming, you&#039;re going to have to go without.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James, you wrote <i>Libertyscott says it all.</i></p>
<p>Why are you still ranting?</p>
<p>By the way, making people richer. How would you do that? Are you aware that we live in a closed system. Wealth and resources are finite, and generally speaking, every dollar I earn, is another dollar someone else has to give up. Fortunately we have most of Asia, Africa and South America to keep us in wealth for a wee while longer, but buddy, the shit will hit the fan. There are a billion ambitious Chinese out there, and once they start consuming, you&#8217;re going to have to go without.</p>
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		<title>By: culma</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165725</link>
		<dc:creator>culma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2006 04:24:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mara - when I look at the face of this little guy, I see my own son in his face and the RAGE builds. 
There is a difference between myself and these 3, it is called evolution, you wouldn&#039;t expect this behavior from a &quot;ROCK APE&quot; and certainly not a human being. If these people act like this give them all sentences that fit the crime, mother as well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mara &#8211; when I look at the face of this little guy, I see my own son in his face and the RAGE builds.<br />
There is a difference between myself and these 3, it is called evolution, you wouldn&#8217;t expect this behavior from a &#8220;ROCK APE&#8221; and certainly not a human being. If these people act like this give them all sentences that fit the crime, mother as well.</p>
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		<title>By: mara</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165724</link>
		<dc:creator>mara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2006 03:40:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Ok why not personalise this issue a bit...it might cast some light.I had a prem.baby at 41.She was good,but wouldn&#039;t feed.I was manic and had frequent 3am episodes when I hung over the kitchen sink with 2 gins in hand and an ongoing fag.I propped her up on cushions and left the room.I was desperate but never allowed myself to hurt the baby.It was never an option. despite my desperation.YOU JUST DO NOT DO THIS.Do I feel morally superior?Yeah,probably</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ok why not personalise this issue a bit&#8230;it might cast some light.I had a prem.baby at 41.She was good,but wouldn&#8217;t feed.I was manic and had frequent 3am episodes when I hung over the kitchen sink with 2 gins in hand and an ongoing fag.I propped her up on cushions and left the room.I was desperate but never allowed myself to hurt the baby.It was never an option. despite my desperation.YOU JUST DO NOT DO THIS.Do I feel morally superior?Yeah,probably</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165723</link>
		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2006 01:56:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Also James...Where would the poor fit into &quot;your&quot; NZ society. And how would you solve the above abuse problem?&quot;

In my society Cadmus we have things called camps where the poor are sent to....and Im kidding!;-)

I want to live in a society that has as few poor people as possible ....how?...by making them richer,thats how! Welfare stops that process and makes it so hard for people to clamber out of the hole that they are in...and I have been there myself and its the closest thing I can imagine to drug addiction.

That is the Hide/Brash agenda Cadmus ...to eliminate the poor by making them better off,prosperous and self sefficent..oh the horror!:-O 

Capitalists,contrary to Lefty thinking, don&#039;t want large numbers of poor people struggling to survive...why?...because poor people don&#039;t have money to spend on the Capitalists goods to make them richer!

Capitalists want a society of prosperous, secure people wanting to improve their lifestyles because these people will make the Capitalists richer too...win win....just logical ain&#039;t it?

 Its actually the Left that need large numbers of poor people in society in order to have a voter base they can string along on dependancy.That is the Clark/Cullen/Winston agenda Cadmus...a nation of addicts all looking to them to get their fix...makes you proud to be a Socialist eh?

As to the abuse...for a start stop funding it by doleing out rewards for bad behavior! How obvious is that? If you create an incentive for people to have children they neither love nor really want why the suprise when they treat these kids as the pain in the arse that they truly see them as?

 There will always be abuse...thats just reality Im afraid,but there is no need to activly encourage it amoungst people with welfare rewards for popping out babies that are not wanted.The States function is to protect rights....they should remove children from these monsters and create massive disencentives for these people to breed again...or until they are in a financial and mental state to be able to do so well.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Also James&#8230;Where would the poor fit into &#8220;your&#8221; NZ society. And how would you solve the above abuse problem?&#8221;</p>
<p>In my society Cadmus we have things called camps where the poor are sent to&#8230;.and Im kidding!;-)</p>
<p>I want to live in a society that has as few poor people as possible &#8230;.how?&#8230;by making them richer,thats how! Welfare stops that process and makes it so hard for people to clamber out of the hole that they are in&#8230;and I have been there myself and its the closest thing I can imagine to drug addiction.</p>
<p>That is the Hide/Brash agenda Cadmus &#8230;to eliminate the poor by making them better off,prosperous and self sefficent..oh the horror!:-O </p>
<p>Capitalists,contrary to Lefty thinking, don&#8217;t want large numbers of poor people struggling to survive&#8230;why?&#8230;because poor people don&#8217;t have money to spend on the Capitalists goods to make them richer!</p>
<p>Capitalists want a society of prosperous, secure people wanting to improve their lifestyles because these people will make the Capitalists richer too&#8230;win win&#8230;.just logical ain&#8217;t it?</p>
<p> Its actually the Left that need large numbers of poor people in society in order to have a voter base they can string along on dependancy.That is the Clark/Cullen/Winston agenda Cadmus&#8230;a nation of addicts all looking to them to get their fix&#8230;makes you proud to be a Socialist eh?</p>
<p>As to the abuse&#8230;for a start stop funding it by doleing out rewards for bad behavior! How obvious is that? If you create an incentive for people to have children they neither love nor really want why the suprise when they treat these kids as the pain in the arse that they truly see them as?</p>
<p> There will always be abuse&#8230;thats just reality Im afraid,but there is no need to activly encourage it amoungst people with welfare rewards for popping out babies that are not wanted.The States function is to protect rights&#8230;.they should remove children from these monsters and create massive disencentives for these people to breed again&#8230;or until they are in a financial and mental state to be able to do so well.</p>
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		<title>By: culma</title>
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		<dc:creator>culma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Mar 2006 00:25:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>loqix - interesting, I appreciate that you&#039;ve put a foot in the sand &quot;BUT&quot;, the relevance of culture seems strange to me and I would like to address this in blunt terms, &quot;Animal terms&quot; if you will.
1 - If an animal kills or doesn&#039;t protect its young, the species dies off!

2 - can&#039;t see any reason why a Maori could blame a European for the treatment of the Maori child at the hands of the child&#039;s own parent!
 
3 - children are a gift and looking at the state of this child I believe the judge that posted the photo&#039;s is a charlatan, he has the opportunity to &quot;make an example&quot; out of these scum, but chooses to give him 10 years, be out in 5, and 18 months for the mother, what a crock of shit.

4 - I wonder how much effort Maoridom put into the tools needed to protect their own children from themselves, the reason I have stated it as them and us is quite simple, Maori have always stated they don&#039;t need to be directed by anyone other than Maori.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>loqix &#8211; interesting, I appreciate that you&#8217;ve put a foot in the sand &#8220;BUT&#8221;, the relevance of culture seems strange to me and I would like to address this in blunt terms, &#8220;Animal terms&#8221; if you will.<br />
1 &#8211; If an animal kills or doesn&#8217;t protect its young, the species dies off!</p>
<p>2 &#8211; can&#8217;t see any reason why a Maori could blame a European for the treatment of the Maori child at the hands of the child&#8217;s own parent!</p>
<p>3 &#8211; children are a gift and looking at the state of this child I believe the judge that posted the photo&#8217;s is a charlatan, he has the opportunity to &#8220;make an example&#8221; out of these scum, but chooses to give him 10 years, be out in 5, and 18 months for the mother, what a crock of shit.</p>
<p>4 &#8211; I wonder how much effort Maoridom put into the tools needed to protect their own children from themselves, the reason I have stated it as them and us is quite simple, Maori have always stated they don&#8217;t need to be directed by anyone other than Maori.</p>
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		<title>By: Logix</title>
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		<dc:creator>Logix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2006 23:30:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>culma,

What answer are you looking for? I would think there are a number of possibilities to choose from. My initial reaction is that there are two forces at work.

1. I have no doubt that there exists an element of &quot;Maori bashing&quot; alive and well in our media. Not necessarily of malicious or personally racist intent, but mostly because European and Maori cultures are not the same, and tend to view things through different lenses, and place a different weight upon them. 

2. This links into something very fundamentatal about the Maori and European cultures world views. A Pakeha thinks of himself as standing in the present, and looking forward to the future. By contrast the Maori imagines himself standing in the present, with the entire past looking over his shoulder. 

This difference means for instance that Maori society place more weight and value on the ancestors and elders than we do, whereas Pakeha bind up much of their hopes and plans into their children.  This of course should NOT be interpreted in a black and white fashion, of course Pakeha care for their retired elderly, and Maori care for their mokopuna....but the cultures are not indentical in this respect, and there are differences in priorities and nuances. It is sticking my neck out to say this, but a dispassionate observer might say as a result, that child abuse is somewhat more likely in Maori society, and elder abuse more prevalent in Pakeha.

By itself this information does not contribute much. Yet is does offer us a choice. As two cultures that are profoundly influencing each other, we can choose to accuse and blame each other for our mutual failings, or we could choose to confirm and adopt each other&#039;s strengths.  I pick the latter.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>culma,</p>
<p>What answer are you looking for? I would think there are a number of possibilities to choose from. My initial reaction is that there are two forces at work.</p>
<p>1. I have no doubt that there exists an element of &#8220;Maori bashing&#8221; alive and well in our media. Not necessarily of malicious or personally racist intent, but mostly because European and Maori cultures are not the same, and tend to view things through different lenses, and place a different weight upon them. </p>
<p>2. This links into something very fundamentatal about the Maori and European cultures world views. A Pakeha thinks of himself as standing in the present, and looking forward to the future. By contrast the Maori imagines himself standing in the present, with the entire past looking over his shoulder. </p>
<p>This difference means for instance that Maori society place more weight and value on the ancestors and elders than we do, whereas Pakeha bind up much of their hopes and plans into their children.  This of course should NOT be interpreted in a black and white fashion, of course Pakeha care for their retired elderly, and Maori care for their mokopuna&#8230;.but the cultures are not indentical in this respect, and there are differences in priorities and nuances. It is sticking my neck out to say this, but a dispassionate observer might say as a result, that child abuse is somewhat more likely in Maori society, and elder abuse more prevalent in Pakeha.</p>
<p>By itself this information does not contribute much. Yet is does offer us a choice. As two cultures that are profoundly influencing each other, we can choose to accuse and blame each other for our mutual failings, or we could choose to confirm and adopt each other&#8217;s strengths.  I pick the latter.</p>
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		<title>By: Cadmus</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165720</link>
		<dc:creator>Cadmus</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2006 21:30:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James, I don&#039;t know if your here for a wind up or not? Either you are, or you have been duped by ACT types?

Also James...Where would the poor fit into &quot;your&quot; NZ society. And how would you solve the above abuse problem?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James, I don&#8217;t know if your here for a wind up or not? Either you are, or you have been duped by ACT types?</p>
<p>Also James&#8230;Where would the poor fit into &#8220;your&#8221; NZ society. And how would you solve the above abuse problem?</p>
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		<title>By: culma</title>
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		<dc:creator>culma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2006 21:14:50 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Loqix - answer me one question, why do the NZ media only concentrate predominantly on the reporting of those abuse cases against Maori children? 
The Maori population is listed at about 15% of the population, but the abuse reporting seem to be weighted quite clearly against Maori. Is this because the white man doesn&#039;t report this sort of abuse about white children? Or is there another reason. I think the letter!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Loqix &#8211; answer me one question, why do the NZ media only concentrate predominantly on the reporting of those abuse cases against Maori children?<br />
The Maori population is listed at about 15% of the population, but the abuse reporting seem to be weighted quite clearly against Maori. Is this because the white man doesn&#8217;t report this sort of abuse about white children? Or is there another reason. I think the letter!</p>
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		<title>By: Logix</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2006/03/the_face_of_abuse.html#comment-165718</link>
		<dc:creator>Logix</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2006 20:48:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Above I outlined very broadly what it takes for human societies to be prosperous, a four way nexus of both individual rights and responsibilities, (welfare and work) and collective rights and responsibilities (a functioning economy and social justice)...a model that demands all four elements to be in balance to deliver the a result. Implicit in this is the idea that welfare alone is an insufficient solution.

Yet your response is to eliminate &quot;state welfare&quot; and rely on &quot;human benevolence&quot; at the personal level. &lt;i&gt;This is the natural benevolence that has helped communities through civil emergencies, wars and the like - it is how almost everyone acts with family and friends. It is how many do with neighbours, it is civilisation. It isn&#039;t out of guilt or obligation or force, but humanity.&lt;/i&gt; Great idea.... I have no objection, this fine sentiment is clearly a desirable part of the solution. Now demonstrate to me how well this plan works with some solid historic examples, or better still, from your own life. How many ill, lonely, displaced or alienated people did you PERSONALLY reach out to yesterday? Or where you planning to do it today? 

Yet the fact is that the kind of &quot;golden age&quot; you are visualising does not come for free. People will help each other IF they have both the resources and they have as you correctly state...the sense of social empathy and connection. Historically we know this can works well enough at the level of a village, but it breaks down when the social unit is a city, or a nation. Besides, traditionally is was the women upon whom the burden of &quot;benevolence&quot; fell....these days they are out working to pay the mortgage. Personal benevolence is only possible if the community is sufficiently developed and configured to sustain it.

&lt;i&gt;Yes I&#039;d ultimately abolish state welfare&lt;/i&gt;

This commits the classic absurdity along the lines &quot; this house does not keep the rain out very well, lets get rid of the floors&quot;.  Your proposals would &quot;destroy the village in order to save it&quot;.  

&lt;i&gt;but for starters conviction of a violent/sexual offence should deny you ever receiving state welfare - why do people who ruin the lives of others deserve to be fed by them?&lt;/i&gt;

Because this statement uses weasel words to disguise something else....you proposing they should die. No money = no shelter, no food = death. (Unless of course they resort to crime to feed themselves). Spot the fundamental contradiction....you proclaim human liberty, but in reality your position is built on death. In  a modern nation such as New Zealand, if you cannot find work, and you are barred from welfare, and you have no family able to support you...then there is no other choice but homelessness. And given enough of them, some will die. What you are calling for is a kind of half-arsed gutless form of death penalty. As a society we have abandoned both the explicit death penalty (capital punishment) and it&#039;s implicit cousin, starvation to death. You do not get to pick and choose who lives or dies, within the bounds of a normal human lifespan. Abandoning someone to starve, when you could feed them, is the same moral act as putting a bullet in their head. Worse actually....death by cold, hunger and exhaustion is slow and especially brutal. 

Curious too is the limited moral horizon that your outrage functions in. I&#039;ve refrained so far from extrapolating from this one child&#039;s tragedy, to the 150,000 odd children who die every month in Africa from readily preventable causes. Now I&#039;m not making this your fault....it isn&#039;t. But what I have read from you, it is clear that your moral horizon has shrunk to not extend much past the end of your own nose....while in my world, I want to continue pushing at it&#039;s boundaries so as it might ultimately encompass the whole of humanity. 

&lt;i&gt;&quot;It is not about charity, it is about justice.&quot;&lt;/i&gt; Bono</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Above I outlined very broadly what it takes for human societies to be prosperous, a four way nexus of both individual rights and responsibilities, (welfare and work) and collective rights and responsibilities (a functioning economy and social justice)&#8230;a model that demands all four elements to be in balance to deliver the a result. Implicit in this is the idea that welfare alone is an insufficient solution.</p>
<p>Yet your response is to eliminate &#8220;state welfare&#8221; and rely on &#8220;human benevolence&#8221; at the personal level. <i>This is the natural benevolence that has helped communities through civil emergencies, wars and the like &#8211; it is how almost everyone acts with family and friends. It is how many do with neighbours, it is civilisation. It isn&#8217;t out of guilt or obligation or force, but humanity.</i> Great idea&#8230;. I have no objection, this fine sentiment is clearly a desirable part of the solution. Now demonstrate to me how well this plan works with some solid historic examples, or better still, from your own life. How many ill, lonely, displaced or alienated people did you PERSONALLY reach out to yesterday? Or where you planning to do it today? </p>
<p>Yet the fact is that the kind of &#8220;golden age&#8221; you are visualising does not come for free. People will help each other IF they have both the resources and they have as you correctly state&#8230;the sense of social empathy and connection. Historically we know this can works well enough at the level of a village, but it breaks down when the social unit is a city, or a nation. Besides, traditionally is was the women upon whom the burden of &#8220;benevolence&#8221; fell&#8230;.these days they are out working to pay the mortgage. Personal benevolence is only possible if the community is sufficiently developed and configured to sustain it.</p>
<p><i>Yes I&#8217;d ultimately abolish state welfare</i></p>
<p>This commits the classic absurdity along the lines &#8221; this house does not keep the rain out very well, lets get rid of the floors&#8221;.  Your proposals would &#8220;destroy the village in order to save it&#8221;.  </p>
<p><i>but for starters conviction of a violent/sexual offence should deny you ever receiving state welfare &#8211; why do people who ruin the lives of others deserve to be fed by them?</i></p>
<p>Because this statement uses weasel words to disguise something else&#8230;.you proposing they should die. No money = no shelter, no food = death. (Unless of course they resort to crime to feed themselves). Spot the fundamental contradiction&#8230;.you proclaim human liberty, but in reality your position is built on death. In  a modern nation such as New Zealand, if you cannot find work, and you are barred from welfare, and you have no family able to support you&#8230;then there is no other choice but homelessness. And given enough of them, some will die. What you are calling for is a kind of half-arsed gutless form of death penalty. As a society we have abandoned both the explicit death penalty (capital punishment) and it&#8217;s implicit cousin, starvation to death. You do not get to pick and choose who lives or dies, within the bounds of a normal human lifespan. Abandoning someone to starve, when you could feed them, is the same moral act as putting a bullet in their head. Worse actually&#8230;.death by cold, hunger and exhaustion is slow and especially brutal. </p>
<p>Curious too is the limited moral horizon that your outrage functions in. I&#8217;ve refrained so far from extrapolating from this one child&#8217;s tragedy, to the 150,000 odd children who die every month in Africa from readily preventable causes. Now I&#8217;m not making this your fault&#8230;.it isn&#8217;t. But what I have read from you, it is clear that your moral horizon has shrunk to not extend much past the end of your own nose&#8230;.while in my world, I want to continue pushing at it&#8217;s boundaries so as it might ultimately encompass the whole of humanity. </p>
<p><i>&#8220;It is not about charity, it is about justice.&#8221;</i> Bono</p>
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		<title>By: James</title>
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		<dc:creator>James</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2006 20:28:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Libertyscott says it all.</description>
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		<title>By: libertyscott</title>
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		<dc:creator>libertyscott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Mar 2006 16:22:53 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>There is a way of uniting individualism with caring for each other, human benevolence is voluntary - it isn&#039;t expressed through the state.

The term social justice is an utterly bankrupt excuse for any form of state-enforced theft - the idea that someone who is more successful than someone else owes something to the less successful.  This is nonsense.  However, it is human to care for and the want to help others who you can relate to and empathise with.  This is the natural benevolence that has helped communities through civil emergencies, wars and the like - it is how almost everyone acts with family and friends.  It is how many do with neighbours, it is civilisation.  It isn&#039;t out of guilt or obligation or force, but humanity.

This case has little to do with that at all - it is about failed people.   The men who did this deserve nothing, it is so unspeakably evil as to be beyond words - I&#039;d happily pay for them to both be locked up in solitary confinement for life - I can have compassion for people who fail their own life because of abuse, but not those who are evil towards children.  The child&#039;s mother deserves to never receive state welfare at the very least and never to breed again - she has shown complete inability to act according to the basic instincts of a parent - to provide protection.  It is no loss for her to not breed again.  I would not enforce it medically, but ban her from having custody of children.

Yes I&#039;d ultimately abolish state welfare, but for starters conviction of a violent/sexual offence should deny you ever receiving state welfare - why do people who ruin the lives of others deserve to be fed by them?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is a way of uniting individualism with caring for each other, human benevolence is voluntary &#8211; it isn&#8217;t expressed through the state.</p>
<p>The term social justice is an utterly bankrupt excuse for any form of state-enforced theft &#8211; the idea that someone who is more successful than someone else owes something to the less successful.  This is nonsense.  However, it is human to care for and the want to help others who you can relate to and empathise with.  This is the natural benevolence that has helped communities through civil emergencies, wars and the like &#8211; it is how almost everyone acts with family and friends.  It is how many do with neighbours, it is civilisation.  It isn&#8217;t out of guilt or obligation or force, but humanity.</p>
<p>This case has little to do with that at all &#8211; it is about failed people.   The men who did this deserve nothing, it is so unspeakably evil as to be beyond words &#8211; I&#8217;d happily pay for them to both be locked up in solitary confinement for life &#8211; I can have compassion for people who fail their own life because of abuse, but not those who are evil towards children.  The child&#8217;s mother deserves to never receive state welfare at the very least and never to breed again &#8211; she has shown complete inability to act according to the basic instincts of a parent &#8211; to provide protection.  It is no loss for her to not breed again.  I would not enforce it medically, but ban her from having custody of children.</p>
<p>Yes I&#8217;d ultimately abolish state welfare, but for starters conviction of a violent/sexual offence should deny you ever receiving state welfare &#8211; why do people who ruin the lives of others deserve to be fed by them?</p>
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