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		<title>By: ROSS</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-330192</link>
		<dc:creator>ROSS</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2007 22:17:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Deborah wrote: &quot;The police acted exactly the way they should have. They turned up, assessed the situation...&quot;.

Actually, they didn&#039;t assess the situation according to the woman concerned. In fact, the three cops remained outside the entire time. Meanwhile, the kids  could have been slowly and quietly dying in another room. The thick blue line strikes again!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Deborah wrote: &#8220;The police acted exactly the way they should have. They turned up, assessed the situation&#8230;&#8221;.</p>
<p>Actually, they didn&#8217;t assess the situation according to the woman concerned. In fact, the three cops remained outside the entire time. Meanwhile, the kids  could have been slowly and quietly dying in another room. The thick blue line strikes again!</p>
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		<title>By: peterquixote</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329987</link>
		<dc:creator>peterquixote</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2007 07:36:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>burly policeman
&quot;knock knock, police here open up&quot;
woman,
&quot;does this mean the atrocities are about to start, i been waiting for you,&quot;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>burly policeman<br />
&#8220;knock knock, police here open up&#8221;<br />
woman,<br />
&#8220;does this mean the atrocities are about to start, i been waiting for you,&#8221;</p>
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		<title>By: Porcupine</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329964</link>
		<dc:creator>Porcupine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 15 Aug 2007 06:54:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JamesE. We need to change the mindset of what jobs are valuable and important. This BS about academic jobs are more important than others is archaic.

Yes I think we need heroes and roll models. But they shouldnt be sports people or mountaineers or celbrities. The kids should look know further than their parents to see the proud hard working people who keep the country running despite the worst efforts of Bassett&#039;s &quot;iron triangle of politicians, bureaucrats and beneficiaries&quot;. the are the bloody heroes and they are who I am for.

Then when the kids get an education they will meet other hard working people and choose a useful career I am sure. We need a mindset change because not everyone can climb everest or earn $50Mil moving money around.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JamesE. We need to change the mindset of what jobs are valuable and important. This BS about academic jobs are more important than others is archaic.</p>
<p>Yes I think we need heroes and roll models. But they shouldnt be sports people or mountaineers or celbrities. The kids should look know further than their parents to see the proud hard working people who keep the country running despite the worst efforts of Bassett&#8217;s &#8220;iron triangle of politicians, bureaucrats and beneficiaries&#8221;. the are the bloody heroes and they are who I am for.</p>
<p>Then when the kids get an education they will meet other hard working people and choose a useful career I am sure. We need a mindset change because not everyone can climb everest or earn $50Mil moving money around.</p>
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		<title>By: kiwi in america</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329604</link>
		<dc:creator>kiwi in america</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 19:32:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>James E
I also wholeheartedly agree with your proposed solutions. Mike Moore wrote an interesting column http://www.mike-moore.info/Archive/2004/00_10_04F_Welfare.html on the transformation of the NZ welfare system from the original &#039;help up&#039; that was tightly controlled and infrequently abused to the growing burden of welfare dependancy and its toxic effects. Mike quotes his former cabinet colleague Michael Bassett: &quot;an iron triangle of politicians, bureaucrats and beneficiaries band together to resist change&quot; - this quote neatly sums up the conundrum of making progress on this issue in New Zealand</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>James E<br />
I also wholeheartedly agree with your proposed solutions. Mike Moore wrote an interesting column <a href="http://www.mike-moore.info/Archive/2004/00_10_04F_Welfare.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.mike-moore.info/Archive/2004/00_10_04F_Welfare.html</a> on the transformation of the NZ welfare system from the original &#8216;help up&#8217; that was tightly controlled and infrequently abused to the growing burden of welfare dependancy and its toxic effects. Mike quotes his former cabinet colleague Michael Bassett: &#8220;an iron triangle of politicians, bureaucrats and beneficiaries band together to resist change&#8221; &#8211; this quote neatly sums up the conundrum of making progress on this issue in New Zealand</p>
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		<title>By: kiwi in america</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329603</link>
		<dc:creator>kiwi in america</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 19:32:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I also wholeheartedly agree with your proposed solutions. Mike Moore wrote an interesting column http://www.mike-moore.info/Archive/2004/00_10_04F_Welfare.html on the transformation of the NZ welfare system from the original &#039;help up&#039; that was tightly controlled and infrequently abused to the growing burden of welfare dependancy and its toxic effects. Mike quotes his former cabinet colleague Michael Bassett: &quot;an iron triangle of politicians, bureaucrats and beneficiaries band together to resist change&quot; - this quote neatly sums up the conundrum of making progress on this issue in New Zealand</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I also wholeheartedly agree with your proposed solutions. Mike Moore wrote an interesting column <a href="http://www.mike-moore.info/Archive/2004/00_10_04F_Welfare.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.mike-moore.info/Archive/2004/00_10_04F_Welfare.html</a> on the transformation of the NZ welfare system from the original &#8216;help up&#8217; that was tightly controlled and infrequently abused to the growing burden of welfare dependancy and its toxic effects. Mike quotes his former cabinet colleague Michael Bassett: &#8220;an iron triangle of politicians, bureaucrats and beneficiaries band together to resist change&#8221; &#8211; this quote neatly sums up the conundrum of making progress on this issue in New Zealand</p>
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		<title>By: JamesE</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329557</link>
		<dc:creator>JamesE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 08:48:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;Yes poor fathers’ , “the Labour Government will do nothing for fathers ” - Tim Barnett 2004 , while the blue team has Judith Collins calling every non -custodial dad a deadbeat and flapping in the wind is peter dunne who cranks up the child extortion payment racket that makes it uneconomical for fathers to find constructive and meaningful work in the community.&quot;

Dad4justice. Unlike certain others on this blog I don&#039;t pretend to know anything about your domestic situation.  I sympathise with your plight despite not exactly being able to identify with with you as a) I don&#039;t know the particulars of your situation and b) I&#039;m not a father let alone a non-custodial one. 

Porc.

&quot;WTF are you a walking political encyclopedia or something!&quot; 

Heh. My mates say I&#039;m an encyclopedia of useless trivia usually. I just like to have an awareness of how this world works so I read widely and retain as much as I can. Thank goodness for Google as I hate to make unsubstantiated statements that could turn out to be untrue. (Not that I&#039;m particularly happy about what I find out from my research). 

&quot;Firstly we need to divert money away from the pockets of the leeches and into the long term sustainability of our economy for the good of everyone.&quot;

Thats easier said than done. Those vested interests are pretty well entrenched and it would take alot of effort to dislodge them. 

Thats why I&#039;d love to support a party like the DDP who are willing to sacrifice political expediancy in order to get things done, but I honestly hold no hope for their success, because despite almost 15 years of MMP this country is still pretty much split on bi-partisan lines or worse. The Social Credit Party had more success under FPP than most minor parties have had under MMP. 

&quot;It would be good to reorganise it but even as it stands if you could get the kids from intergenerationally failing homes to stay at school and some co-operation on discipline they would receive a good basic education.&quot;

That would go some way towards meeting that goal, but I believe the most pressing issue for our most disadvantaged youth is giving them hope that they CAN succeed off their own bat. I mean. Wheres their role models? I don&#039;t just mean on the sports field. Wheres the Sir Apirana Ngata of this day? I think Maori men need to stand up to the plate on this. 

When I studied at OPC last year I was made aware of the exploits of the Maori mountain climber, Mark Whetu, who is renowned as a dedicated expedition leader on Everest. We need more people like this to inspire our young people as to what they can achieve should they have the commitment and persistence to attain any goal they wish. http://www.nzherald.co.nz/feature/story.cfm?c_id=782&amp;ObjectID=3505768

&quot;Perhaps Judges and Lawyers should have to do 5 years in the police force before they qualify - that would sort out a few namby pamby interlectuals who go straight from the cradle to univeristy to excusing psychopaths.&quot;

he he. If my brother (who is a cop here in Rotorua) is anything to go b, no doubt.

I agree wholeheartedly with the rest of what you say.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Yes poor fathers’ , “the Labour Government will do nothing for fathers ” &#8211; Tim Barnett 2004 , while the blue team has Judith Collins calling every non -custodial dad a deadbeat and flapping in the wind is peter dunne who cranks up the child extortion payment racket that makes it uneconomical for fathers to find constructive and meaningful work in the community.&#8221;</p>
<p>Dad4justice. Unlike certain others on this blog I don&#8217;t pretend to know anything about your domestic situation.  I sympathise with your plight despite not exactly being able to identify with with you as a) I don&#8217;t know the particulars of your situation and b) I&#8217;m not a father let alone a non-custodial one. </p>
<p>Porc.</p>
<p>&#8220;WTF are you a walking political encyclopedia or something!&#8221; </p>
<p>Heh. My mates say I&#8217;m an encyclopedia of useless trivia usually. I just like to have an awareness of how this world works so I read widely and retain as much as I can. Thank goodness for Google as I hate to make unsubstantiated statements that could turn out to be untrue. (Not that I&#8217;m particularly happy about what I find out from my research). </p>
<p>&#8220;Firstly we need to divert money away from the pockets of the leeches and into the long term sustainability of our economy for the good of everyone.&#8221;</p>
<p>Thats easier said than done. Those vested interests are pretty well entrenched and it would take alot of effort to dislodge them. </p>
<p>Thats why I&#8217;d love to support a party like the DDP who are willing to sacrifice political expediancy in order to get things done, but I honestly hold no hope for their success, because despite almost 15 years of MMP this country is still pretty much split on bi-partisan lines or worse. The Social Credit Party had more success under FPP than most minor parties have had under MMP. </p>
<p>&#8220;It would be good to reorganise it but even as it stands if you could get the kids from intergenerationally failing homes to stay at school and some co-operation on discipline they would receive a good basic education.&#8221;</p>
<p>That would go some way towards meeting that goal, but I believe the most pressing issue for our most disadvantaged youth is giving them hope that they CAN succeed off their own bat. I mean. Wheres their role models? I don&#8217;t just mean on the sports field. Wheres the Sir Apirana Ngata of this day? I think Maori men need to stand up to the plate on this. </p>
<p>When I studied at OPC last year I was made aware of the exploits of the Maori mountain climber, Mark Whetu, who is renowned as a dedicated expedition leader on Everest. We need more people like this to inspire our young people as to what they can achieve should they have the commitment and persistence to attain any goal they wish. <a href="http://www.nzherald.co.nz/feature/story.cfm?c_id=782&#038;ObjectID=3505768" rel="nofollow">http://www.nzherald.co.nz/feature/story.cfm?c_id=782&#038;ObjectID=3505768</a></p>
<p>&#8220;Perhaps Judges and Lawyers should have to do 5 years in the police force before they qualify &#8211; that would sort out a few namby pamby interlectuals who go straight from the cradle to univeristy to excusing psychopaths.&#8221;</p>
<p>he he. If my brother (who is a cop here in Rotorua) is anything to go b, no doubt.</p>
<p>I agree wholeheartedly with the rest of what you say.</p>
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		<title>By: Deborah</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329541</link>
		<dc:creator>Deborah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 07:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;i&gt;Wasn’t it inevitable that busybodies would cause distress to decent parents? The anti smacking bill was always going to cause trouble for decent parents but make no difference to the real abusers.&lt;/i&gt;

D&#039;oh!

The police acted exactly the way they should have.  They turned up, assessed the situation, and moved right along, because in their professional opinion, exactly nothing was wrong.

&lt;i&gt;It’s the FAMILY and neighbours that should be knocking on that mum’s door asking what’s going on, NOT the police or CYF.&lt;/i&gt;

Exactly so.  Though there is a danger that we become a nation of supervisors...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><i>Wasn’t it inevitable that busybodies would cause distress to decent parents? The anti smacking bill was always going to cause trouble for decent parents but make no difference to the real abusers.</i></p>
<p>D&#8217;oh!</p>
<p>The police acted exactly the way they should have.  They turned up, assessed the situation, and moved right along, because in their professional opinion, exactly nothing was wrong.</p>
<p><i>It’s the FAMILY and neighbours that should be knocking on that mum’s door asking what’s going on, NOT the police or CYF.</i></p>
<p>Exactly so.  Though there is a danger that we become a nation of supervisors&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: dad4justice</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329535</link>
		<dc:creator>dad4justice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 06:31:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Respect for the rule of law seems to only matter today if in fact we have diligent guardians unto Liberty and honored respects for Human dignity.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Respect for the rule of law seems to only matter today if in fact we have diligent guardians unto Liberty and honored respects for Human dignity.</p>
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		<title>By: Thrash Cardiom</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329534</link>
		<dc:creator>Thrash Cardiom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 06:24:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This situation is not a result of the anti-smacking bill.  My sister in law was in exactly the same situation about two years ago.  She has two sets of twins.  One night when her husband was elsewhere one set was in the bath and misbehaving and the other set was close by  and also misbehaving.  The result was a houseful of under 10 year olds screaming their heads off.  A neighbour called the police because they had no idea what was happening - just heard huge amounts of screaming.  The police showed up, assessed the situation and left.

She didn&#039;t hit them, beat them etc.  The noise was just their own tanty noise.

(and for the record, I didn&#039;t support Bradford&#039;s bill).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This situation is not a result of the anti-smacking bill.  My sister in law was in exactly the same situation about two years ago.  She has two sets of twins.  One night when her husband was elsewhere one set was in the bath and misbehaving and the other set was close by  and also misbehaving.  The result was a houseful of under 10 year olds screaming their heads off.  A neighbour called the police because they had no idea what was happening &#8211; just heard huge amounts of screaming.  The police showed up, assessed the situation and left.</p>
<p>She didn&#8217;t hit them, beat them etc.  The noise was just their own tanty noise.</p>
<p>(and for the record, I didn&#8217;t support Bradford&#8217;s bill).</p>
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		<title>By: dad4justice</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329525</link>
		<dc:creator>dad4justice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 04:57:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>It&#039;s the MP&#039;s sister whose name eludes me  , what was she called  , she told lies while in public office as a Minister of the Crown , however Helen Clark laughed about it .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It&#8217;s the MP&#8217;s sister whose name eludes me  , what was she called  , she told lies while in public office as a Minister of the Crown , however Helen Clark laughed about it .</p>
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		<title>By: dad4justice</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329523</link>
		<dc:creator>dad4justice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 04:47:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The old boys club like blonde fresh meat - I think Ms Dalziel from crown law looks set to be another  promoted female judge  before the election, because the sisterhood must roll on, at all costs to society  !
Talk about corruption to keep the feminazi lie going !!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The old boys club like blonde fresh meat &#8211; I think Ms Dalziel from crown law looks set to be another  promoted female judge  before the election, because the sisterhood must roll on, at all costs to society  !<br />
Talk about corruption to keep the feminazi lie going !!</p>
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		<title>By: Porcupine</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329518</link>
		<dc:creator>Porcupine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 04:36:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I suppose its like &quot;looking from pig to man and back to pig again&quot; a la &quot;Animal Farm&quot; when the come up against dishonest antisocial people then.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I suppose its like &#8220;looking from pig to man and back to pig again&#8221; a la &#8220;Animal Farm&#8221; when the come up against dishonest antisocial people then.</p>
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		<title>By: dad4justice</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329517</link>
		<dc:creator>dad4justice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 04:31:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>The last two judges appointed by the corrupt labour government were both women , one a ChCh crown lawyer and the other a destructive child counsel lawyer from Timaru .
I have serious mud on both of them .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The last two judges appointed by the corrupt labour government were both women , one a ChCh crown lawyer and the other a destructive child counsel lawyer from Timaru .<br />
I have serious mud on both of them .</p>
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		<title>By: Porcupine</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329514</link>
		<dc:creator>Porcupine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 04:23:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Perhaps Judges and Lawyers should have to do 5 years in the police force before they qualify - that would sort out a few namby pamby interlectuals who go straight from the cradle to univeristy to excusing psychopaths.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Perhaps Judges and Lawyers should have to do 5 years in the police force before they qualify &#8211; that would sort out a few namby pamby interlectuals who go straight from the cradle to univeristy to excusing psychopaths.</p>
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		<title>By: Porcupine</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329512</link>
		<dc:creator>Porcupine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 04:15:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>JamesE WTF are you a walking political encyclopedia or something! Great suggestions mate. I agree with just about everything you say.

Firstly we need to divert money away from the pockets of the leeches and into the long term sustainability of our economy for the good of everyone. The problem is these social problems that have been caused by an unholy alliance between leftie totalitarian excusers and rightie laissez faire liberals now bleedsw us dry of the money we need for a long term solution.

So we need to go through a short time where we get tough and ignore the bleating from the do-gooders.

This applies to the education as well. It would be good to reorganise it but even as it stands if you could get the kids from intergenerationally failing homes to stay at school and some co-operation on discipline they would receive a good basic education.

How to stop the numbnuts from breeding until they can provide a good environment for their children - well ong term education and the desire to reap the benifits of being in a higher socioeconomic category is the best I can think of. But the namby pamby way has failed and we need to turn it around where the kids dont dare misbehave at scholl and the parents dont dare let the kids misbehave anywhere.

Stop spending the money on bureaucrats and spend the money on troops (social services possibly attached to the police) on the ground seems like the best way forward, but with a view to phasing them out as the problems are solved, not perpetuating anouther feeding trough.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>JamesE WTF are you a walking political encyclopedia or something! Great suggestions mate. I agree with just about everything you say.</p>
<p>Firstly we need to divert money away from the pockets of the leeches and into the long term sustainability of our economy for the good of everyone. The problem is these social problems that have been caused by an unholy alliance between leftie totalitarian excusers and rightie laissez faire liberals now bleedsw us dry of the money we need for a long term solution.</p>
<p>So we need to go through a short time where we get tough and ignore the bleating from the do-gooders.</p>
<p>This applies to the education as well. It would be good to reorganise it but even as it stands if you could get the kids from intergenerationally failing homes to stay at school and some co-operation on discipline they would receive a good basic education.</p>
<p>How to stop the numbnuts from breeding until they can provide a good environment for their children &#8211; well ong term education and the desire to reap the benifits of being in a higher socioeconomic category is the best I can think of. But the namby pamby way has failed and we need to turn it around where the kids dont dare misbehave at scholl and the parents dont dare let the kids misbehave anywhere.</p>
<p>Stop spending the money on bureaucrats and spend the money on troops (social services possibly attached to the police) on the ground seems like the best way forward, but with a view to phasing them out as the problems are solved, not perpetuating anouther feeding trough.</p>
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		<title>By: dad4justice</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329499</link>
		<dc:creator>dad4justice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 03:54:02 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes poor fathers&#039; , &quot;the Labour Government will do nothing for fathers &quot; - Tim Barnett 2004  , while the blue team has Judith Collins calling every non -custodial dad a deadbeat and flapping in the wind is  peter dunne who cranks up the child extortion payment racket that makes it uneconomical for fathers to find constructive and meaningful work in the community !
Go figure - welcome to feminazi where dads get shafted every which way .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes poor fathers&#8217; , &#8220;the Labour Government will do nothing for fathers &#8221; &#8211; Tim Barnett 2004  , while the blue team has Judith Collins calling every non -custodial dad a deadbeat and flapping in the wind is  peter dunne who cranks up the child extortion payment racket that makes it uneconomical for fathers to find constructive and meaningful work in the community !<br />
Go figure &#8211; welcome to feminazi where dads get shafted every which way .</p>
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		<title>By: JamesE</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329485</link>
		<dc:creator>JamesE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 03:25:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;WTF are people with 100 convistions doing walking around breeding?&quot;

Like you say, because our no nothing, namby pamby pollies and judges etc.

&quot;Firstly, decades of the courts assuming that the mother is always the right person to have primary custody. the problem is that they then go from one degenerate partner to another who often abuse the children. so often the beater or killer is just the latest bonk.&quot;

Yep, sad but true. What can you do about that though? 

However much I agreed with Don Brash&#039;s policies I think his suggestion that the government should encourage alternatives to abortion and the DPB is a good one. I&#039;m adopted and although I don&#039;t always get on with my parents I know I could be in a far worse situation than I am, but look at the reaction that his suggestion got from the ruling sisterhood...

&quot;A suggestion by Don Brash that adoption should be more acceptable than the DPB has been described as &quot;unfortunate&quot; by Prime Minister Clark.&quot; 
http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/1/story.cfm?c_id=1&amp;objectid=10008221

Still I think the DPB is necessary to ensure a beaten wife is financially independant from deadbeat Dads. The father is often on a benefit as well, which prevents him from fulfilling his financial obligations.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;WTF are people with 100 convistions doing walking around breeding?&#8221;</p>
<p>Like you say, because our no nothing, namby pamby pollies and judges etc.</p>
<p>&#8220;Firstly, decades of the courts assuming that the mother is always the right person to have primary custody. the problem is that they then go from one degenerate partner to another who often abuse the children. so often the beater or killer is just the latest bonk.&#8221;</p>
<p>Yep, sad but true. What can you do about that though? </p>
<p>However much I agreed with Don Brash&#8217;s policies I think his suggestion that the government should encourage alternatives to abortion and the DPB is a good one. I&#8217;m adopted and although I don&#8217;t always get on with my parents I know I could be in a far worse situation than I am, but look at the reaction that his suggestion got from the ruling sisterhood&#8230;</p>
<p>&#8220;A suggestion by Don Brash that adoption should be more acceptable than the DPB has been described as &#8220;unfortunate&#8221; by Prime Minister Clark.&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/1/story.cfm?c_id=1&#038;objectid=10008221" rel="nofollow">http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/1/story.cfm?c_id=1&#038;objectid=10008221</a></p>
<p>Still I think the DPB is necessary to ensure a beaten wife is financially independant from deadbeat Dads. The father is often on a benefit as well, which prevents him from fulfilling his financial obligations.</p>
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		<title>By: JamesE</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329468</link>
		<dc:creator>JamesE</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 02:58:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think more successful policy intiatives would be.

Reform our education system. Its obviously failing our kids. No point in forcing kids to go if its not doing them any good.
&quot;One in four leave school without NCEA level one.&quot;
http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/PA0708/S00006.htm

Make abortion illegal and encourage the use of contraceptives. 
&quot;My guess would be that the existence legal abortion made condoms unfashionable in the 1970s. Jonathan Klick&#039;s study suggested that legalized abortion caused a sizable increase in infections with sexually transmitted diseases, which supports that hypothesis.&quot;
http://www.isteve.com/Freakonomics_Fiasco.htm

Improve our economic performance. Adequately educate and train our own people rather than relying on immigrants to fill our skill shortages, which depresses worker&#039;s wages, which are amoung the lowest in the OECD already. This doesn&#039;t exactly encourage the unemployed to enter the workforce if they can help it. 
http://www.neon.org.nz/newsarchive/nzlwe/

Ensure that the benefit is spent on essentials for the families through setting up accounts at the local grocery store (alcohol should be flagged if the receipient should attempt to purchase it)  and automatic payments for their utilities (power, phone, water, gas). Anything else should be run by a case manager at WINZ and if approved the receipts should be checked againsts goods afer purchase. The government also needs to audit and clampdown on crooked finance companies that prey upon the vulnerable in our society. 

&quot;Govt Commissioned Report Into Loan Sharks Shelved&quot;
http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/HL0704/S00342.htm

Shut down pokie machine outlets in our community. Rotorua has one of the highest expenditure on gambling per head of population in the country. 
http://www.stuff.co.nz/sundaystartimes/4161567a6442.html

Limit the availability of alcohol within our communities. 
&quot;Analyses of the graph below shows both Rotorua and Taupo have the highest numbers proportionately, of on-licensed premises, with the tourist trade reportedly influencing this. It is important however to consider the usual resident population that exists all year round within this higher density.&quot;
http://www.bopdhb.govt.nz/ToiTeOra/PDFs/MediaReleases/2004/MediaRelease-20041209.pdf</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think more successful policy intiatives would be.</p>
<p>Reform our education system. Its obviously failing our kids. No point in forcing kids to go if its not doing them any good.<br />
&#8220;One in four leave school without NCEA level one.&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/PA0708/S00006.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/PA0708/S00006.htm</a></p>
<p>Make abortion illegal and encourage the use of contraceptives.<br />
&#8220;My guess would be that the existence legal abortion made condoms unfashionable in the 1970s. Jonathan Klick&#8217;s study suggested that legalized abortion caused a sizable increase in infections with sexually transmitted diseases, which supports that hypothesis.&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.isteve.com/Freakonomics_Fiasco.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.isteve.com/Freakonomics_Fiasco.htm</a></p>
<p>Improve our economic performance. Adequately educate and train our own people rather than relying on immigrants to fill our skill shortages, which depresses worker&#8217;s wages, which are amoung the lowest in the OECD already. This doesn&#8217;t exactly encourage the unemployed to enter the workforce if they can help it.<br />
<a href="http://www.neon.org.nz/newsarchive/nzlwe/" rel="nofollow">http://www.neon.org.nz/newsarchive/nzlwe/</a></p>
<p>Ensure that the benefit is spent on essentials for the families through setting up accounts at the local grocery store (alcohol should be flagged if the receipient should attempt to purchase it)  and automatic payments for their utilities (power, phone, water, gas). Anything else should be run by a case manager at WINZ and if approved the receipts should be checked againsts goods afer purchase. The government also needs to audit and clampdown on crooked finance companies that prey upon the vulnerable in our society. </p>
<p>&#8220;Govt Commissioned Report Into Loan Sharks Shelved&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/HL0704/S00342.htm" rel="nofollow">http://www.scoop.co.nz/stories/HL0704/S00342.htm</a></p>
<p>Shut down pokie machine outlets in our community. Rotorua has one of the highest expenditure on gambling per head of population in the country.<br />
<a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/sundaystartimes/4161567a6442.html" rel="nofollow">http://www.stuff.co.nz/sundaystartimes/4161567a6442.html</a></p>
<p>Limit the availability of alcohol within our communities.<br />
&#8220;Analyses of the graph below shows both Rotorua and Taupo have the highest numbers proportionately, of on-licensed premises, with the tourist trade reportedly influencing this. It is important however to consider the usual resident population that exists all year round within this higher density.&#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.bopdhb.govt.nz/ToiTeOra/PDFs/MediaReleases/2004/MediaRelease-20041209.pdf" rel="nofollow">http://www.bopdhb.govt.nz/ToiTeOra/PDFs/MediaReleases/2004/MediaRelease-20041209.pdf</a></p>
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		<title>By: dad4justice</title>
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		<dc:creator>dad4justice</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 02:38:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I do understand rumpole rational debate is called for with all due respect .</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I do understand rumpole rational debate is called for with all due respect .</p>
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		<title>By: Porcupine</title>
		<link>http://www.kiwiblog.co.nz/2007/08/a_mother_writes.html#comment-329447</link>
		<dc:creator>Porcupine</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 14 Aug 2007 01:58:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh keeping them out of the CBD will help. I mean taking their benefits and their kids and locking them up. WTF are people with 100 convistions doing walking around breeding.

Yes we have a poor record of intervention - that is a very good point. But that could be solved. Two things immediately spring to mind that have contributed markedly to this situation.

Firstly, decades of the courts assuming that the mother is always the right person to have primary custody. the problem is that they then go from one degenerate partner to another who often abuse the children. so often the beater or killer is just the latest bonk.

Secondly, the patronising liberals who put out this idea that the worst that could happen is that the child gets adopted by a nice middle class family - and as usual the sick thcko NZ public swallows it lock stock and both smoking barrels. Peeethetic.

So please dont think I&#039;m harsh but my compassion fatigue is such that I would probably cheer it the police and army rumbled into Wanganui and torched the gang houses and stuck the mebers where the sun dont shine.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh keeping them out of the CBD will help. I mean taking their benefits and their kids and locking them up. WTF are people with 100 convistions doing walking around breeding.</p>
<p>Yes we have a poor record of intervention &#8211; that is a very good point. But that could be solved. Two things immediately spring to mind that have contributed markedly to this situation.</p>
<p>Firstly, decades of the courts assuming that the mother is always the right person to have primary custody. the problem is that they then go from one degenerate partner to another who often abuse the children. so often the beater or killer is just the latest bonk.</p>
<p>Secondly, the patronising liberals who put out this idea that the worst that could happen is that the child gets adopted by a nice middle class family &#8211; and as usual the sick thcko NZ public swallows it lock stock and both smoking barrels. Peeethetic.</p>
<p>So please dont think I&#8217;m harsh but my compassion fatigue is such that I would probably cheer it the police and army rumbled into Wanganui and torched the gang houses and stuck the mebers where the sun dont shine.</p>
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