Cactus names her number

January 7th, 2010 at 9:11 am by David Farrar

Cactus Kate names her number – 15, while commenting on Warren Beatty’s number of 12,775. Cactus notes:

And before he blogs on the subject, six of the 15 men know David Farrar hence why I am very nice to David. He is above all (and remember this girls) a very good referral source and dating agency as he knows a huge amount of centre-right wing thinking men ;) . Being exceptionally nice to him assists in keeping his gob shut.

Heh. She makes me sound like a pimp.

As I have been single the vast majority of that time, the reason the count is not higher is the difference between men and women I guess. I just can’t be bothered. That is, I would rather repeat with one of the 15 I know and actually liked than find new ones.

This is a big difference. Unless you are in love/lust with someone, a guy often loses interest after the score. Not all men of course, but a reasonable number. To some degree it is built in I reckon for the survival of the species – we’ve just learn over the centuries to practice monogamy.

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39 Responses to “Cactus names her number”

  1. Redbaiter (13,197) Says:

    No wonder she’s still on the shelf.

    Spinsterhood just around the corner Katey.

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  2. Manolo (10,205) Says:

    DPF, could you please provide me with her mobile number? :-)

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  3. burt (5,962) Says:

    we’ve just learn over the centuries to practice monogamy.

    Speak for yourself on that one. 15… passed that number over 20 years ago.

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  4. Steve (3,693) Says:

    O410T

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  5. democracymum (660) Says:

    Democracymum can beat 15
    21 years married today :-)

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  6. Redbaiter (13,197) Says:

    “15… passed that number over 20 years ago.”

    Wow, a local rival to Warren Beatty.

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  7. Angus (535) Says:

    “Cougar Kate” ?

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  8. Gooner (995) Says:

    15?

    What night was that CK?

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  9. Elijah Lineberry (306) Says:

    I think I had passed that number before I had even turned 15 … hahahaha!

    I always find it amusing what heterosexual people define as a lot of sex partners.

    http://www.nightcitytrader.blogspot.com

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  10. Angus (535) Says:

    “I think I had passed that number before I had even turned 15 … hahahaha! ”

    Whatever you do, spare me the details.

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  11. Redbaiter (13,197) Says:

    “I think I had passed that number before I had even turned 15 … hahahaha!”

    Kates not talking about oral.

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  12. Manolo (10,205) Says:

    “I always find it amusing what heterosexual people define as a lot of sex partners.”

    Why is that? What about homosexuals? But, who cares?
    Live your life and stop meddling in the lives of others. That’s my motto.

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  13. Dazzaman (1,013) Says:

    15 ay! Good, healthy appetite but not too used to not be wife material for Manolo! LOL

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  14. MikeNZ (3,234) Says:

    15 sexual partners for a 40 year old, that’s not bad for this society I suppose.
    At least she’s not doing a Bill Clinton and lying.

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  15. bustedblonde (137) Says:

    Im staying mum cos Im a mum

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  16. Redbaiter (13,197) Says:

    “15 sexual partners for a 40 year old, that’s not bad for this society I suppose.”

    True- wasn’t there a survey about that demonstrated that most NZ wimmen, (or at least the 60% or so who aren’t latent dykes), have had more pricks than a second hand dart board?

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  17. Pete George (17,904) Says:

    How many spines does a cactus have?

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  18. Brian Smaller (3,835) Says:

    MikeNZ

    15 sexual partners for a 40 year old, that’s not bad for this society I suppose.

    Jeez, mate. You are now off her ‘possibles’ list.

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  19. Murray (8,833) Says:

    I was in the army, either the excesive number or the simplicity of infantrymen makes the counting too difficult for me to get an accurate number.

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  20. Kris K (3,570) Says:

    democracymum 9:38 am,

    Democracymum can beat 15
    21 years married today

    Good on you d-mum, and congratulations.

    Why is it that as a society we ‘praise’ those that fornicate around, instead of celebrating committment within marriage?
    And we wonder why as a society we’re heading to the dogs.

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  21. Rufus (582) Says:

    1 and still happily married to her.

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  22. Redbaiter (13,197) Says:

    “1 and still happily married to her.”

    You’ll never make it in to Burt’s rabbit club then.

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  23. Manolo (10,205) Says:

    The Frogs are masters of the subject. Take a look a this interesting article: http://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/lifematters/infidelity-boosts-marriage-psychologist-20091231-lkq1.html

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  24. MikeNZ (3,234) Says:

    Brian
    So what
    I’m a God botherer so I wasn’t on it in the first place.

    Why go out for burger when you eat steak at home.
    25 years and counting.

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  25. sonic (2,818) Says:

    Is this an entry for saddest blog post ever?

    “I was in the army, either the excesive number or the simplicity of infantrymen makes the counting too difficult for me to get an accurate number”

    It is good to see Murray finally coming out of the closet though!

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  26. MikeNZ (3,234) Says:

    manalo
    yet another pinhead with a psychology degree.

    Once French women accept that the “fidelity is not natural but cultural”, and that infidelity is essential to the “psychic functioning” of certain men who are still very much in love, it can be a “very liberating” for women, she writes.

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  27. Dirty Rat (504) Says:

    On Dimebags behalf

    “Do hookers count ?”

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  28. Cactus Kate (517) Says:

    MikeNZ, 34 yo. By 40 I should have hit 21 :)

    Redbaiter, I think I am strong enough to resist your charms.

    Busted Blonde, cop out.

    And DPF, if Curia wished to expand and set up a subsidiary matchmaking agency, I wouldn’t mind skimming 20% of your profits. Your match-making is the most credible of any man I have met.

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  29. tristanb (1,117) Says:

    Why go out for burger when you eat steak at home.

    Burgers taste good.

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  30. Robert Black (423) Says:

    Perhaps she should change her name to Kissme Kate?

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  31. burt (5,962) Says:

    It is really interesting to read what people have to say about this.

    MikeNZ – good on your for being monogamous for 25 years, I think that is quite an achievement as it is about 24 years and 10 months more than I managed. ;-)

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  32. Jack5 (3,073) Says:

    That’s that then. The legal profession is indeed well and truly rooted.

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  33. black paul (124) Says:

    Cant see why the silly bint would bring it up at all – 15 is far too few to brag about and its far too many if you want to seem virtuous.

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  34. Cactus Kate (517) Says:

    “15 is far too few to brag about and its far too many if you want to seem virtuous”.

    No need to brag about it (fewer is always better for a woman, as opposed to a man) and to whom does one need to look virtuous in comparison to?

    I was alerted today to this post where the matter was discussed in the comments section at length. Seems like plenty of people like to submit their statistics.

    http://www.stuff.co.nz/life-style/blogs/greer-2-0/2462726/Sluts-studs-and-the-magic-number

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  35. pareto (23) Says:

    ahhh a centre right dating agency, how about that ;)

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  36. Murray (8,833) Says:

    Good to see that chronic is still the biggest fuckwit and his new years resoultion to be and even bigger left cock is working out so well.

    Sole contribution to 2011 has been to make whiney assed snotty little shots at me. For fuck sake chronic give it up I’m not gay and its never going to happen so go watch reruns of brokeback mountain and find a new fixation.

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  37. Brian Smaller (3,835) Says:

    MikeNZ sagely said

    Why go out for burger when you eat steak at home.
    25 years and counting.

    There is steak and there is steak. Chuck isn’t so good as filet. Mind you, even the toughest steak can be tenderised.

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  38. burt (5,962) Says:

    Brian

    Balancing your current mood between desire for a better tase or more tenderness also makes you choose various cuts from time to time. So Steak isn’t just “one thing” either.

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  39. KiwiGreg (2,858) Says:

    “MikeNZ, 34 yo. By 40 I should have hit 21 ”

    Late starter then.

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