They really do have conferences for everything (Did you know there is a cake decorators conference?) as Auckland is hosting a flirting conference.
I had to laugh at the final piece of advice: “Subtlety doesn’t work with men. You have to hit them over the head with a stick or they won’t notice”.
It is interesting to observe how people flirt. One or two of my friends flirt as naturally as they breathe, and probably more often. Others are very very cautious to never ever send out what could be the wrong signals, which means when they do flirt it shows they are most definitely keen on someone.