I was talking to a very good teacher today and he mentioned just how often he hears teachers complain about students they work with (yes probably unionists) – their behaviour, morals, concentration levels … then they give it the “back in my day …”.
Well, I remember “back in my day” and the best description is that my cohort were “brats.”
Around 400BC Socrates wrote:
“The children now love luxury; they have bad manners, contempt for authority; they show disrespect for elders and love chatter in place of exercise. Children are now tyrants, not the servants of their households. They no longer rise when elders enter the room. They contradict their parents, chatter before company, gobble up dainties at the table, cross their legs, and tyrannize their teachers.”
It is a common theme of humanity that current generations think they are the peak, have earned it, and that the next have no gratitude and will take the whole ship down.
Children are the same as they have always been. The formula for them to grow into wonderful adults is also the same:
– Unconditional love. When I behaved badly as a child my mother would be telling me off and I would plead – “you don’t love me” her reply was always – “I don’t like you much at the moment but I do love you.” My best teachers were those whose care and belief in me was unwavering.
– Inspiration and a sense of purpose. Children need to know that they are on the planet and a part of the human story for a reason. They need to know about people who are doing remarkable things – including artists, entrepreneurs, change agents for good (past and present), people who work with the poor, doctors & scientists.
– They need to know the great books and reading as an irreplaceable good. I am currently re-reading (maybe the 6th time) – Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy by Douglas Adams (and through Gary Larson’s – The Complete Far Side. Every sentence, paragraph, page, chapter, book (it is a trilogy in five parts) is a delight. Also worth noting – there never was a bigger gap between a great book as a crap movie than this example. As a teacher of economics, business, math, science … I always read at the start of my class. I never met a child who is not delighted by these stories – even more when they read them for themselves.
Never be put off by a child who says they don’t like reading or a parent who says their son/daughter is “not a reader”. Humans are hard-wired for stories a good teacher/parent gets through the barriers.
Below are the books I read to my children and classes. My children are now wonderful, contributing adults. Looking back I would not change out any of these books.
The Lord of the Rings J. R. R. Tolkien
The Magician’s Nephew C. S. Lewis
The Back of the North Wind George MacDonald
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For the full list go to: alwynpoole.substack.com/p/children-and-young-people-are-as
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